yet another day of memories...
There are 2 parties - the hurter and the hurtee
To hurt requires the hurtee to give the hurter
The power and ability to hurt her
*Remember: "You can't hurt me unless I allow you to"
To hurt implies that
The hurter values the cause behind the action that hurt the hurtee
More than the hurtee herself
If the hurter knew that this action will hurt the hurtee
Simply put,
When I chose to tell you that I am a lesbian,
Knowing that this truth will hurt you,
I value the truth more than you..
Enough to hurt you.
In theory terms,
-A must be vulnerable and give B the power to hurt before B can hurt A
-If B did XYZ, which hurt A, and B knew that doing XYZ will hurt A,
then B must have valued XYZ more than B valued A.
So.. is this theory true for you?
Hurt cannot be avoided
We hurt, and get hurt.
Maybe, this can justify you hurting others..
But more than anything, I hope it eases your pain
When you are hurt..
At least you now have a reason why.
4/13/2006 01:15:00 AM
Dreams
To be out and open
Independence
To be totally Christ-like
I believe that:
Courage is not an absence of fear
but the willingness to face up to the circumstances in spite of the fear.
Desires
A Pair of Pretty Sandals!
CPA! Achieved!
Investment Guru
dislikes
creepy crawly "things"
Unnecessary politics
Goals
get driving license
start my own business
to create my own hedge fund
older memories
my past journey